Good Leadership

Faith Muchembi
4 min readOct 20, 2023

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At various points in our lives, we assume a leadership role, it can be within our families, educational institutions, or workplaces. However, do we possess a clear understanding of the essence of leadership? What truly distinguishes an exemplary leader from an ineffective one? Is it possible for someone to exhibit the qualities of both a proficient and an inept leader interchangeably?

Over the past week, my colleague and I dedicated ourselves to a rigorous three-day training program, which had the primary goal of exploring the complexities of leadership. This training opportunity was offered by Global Partnership Resilience. It encompassed a number of topics; leadership, entrepreneurship, and the art of effective communication. The training was specifically designed for organizations advancing climate resilience initiatives.

So, what’s leadership? And who is a leader? What traits does a good leader portray?

Prior to the trainers offering their insights on leadership, we were given a chance to reflect on our personal understanding of what leadership entails. To me leadership meant being in a position to nurture people’s visions and interests while critiquing their actions i.e. is it good or bad in regards to my knowledge and experience. Now, I extend the same opportunity to you for self-reflection on what leadership represents to you before delving into the subsequent content discussing our trainers’ insights and my own key takeaways from the discussions and exercises conducted.

  • Trust: A leader exemplifies honesty and transparency in every facet of their leadership. This commitment to trustworthiness enhances a sense of confidence within the team. Team members believe that their leader genuinely cares about their well-being and is willing to be accountable for his actions.
  • Role of Vulnerability — A strong leader embraces vulnerability, he or she shares personal challenges and experiences which creates a genuine connection with the team, humanizing the leader in their eyes. This, in turn, cultivates a safe and open atmosphere within the workplace or any other setting, where individuals are more inclined to share their own less-than-perfect life moments.
  • Courage — A leader possesses the courage to defend their team when necessary, to take calculated risks and be assertive in pursuing goals (the courage to attack), the courage to step up and lead by example, the courage to make difficult decisions, whether it’s saying “yes” or “no,” and the courage to act in the best interest of their team, regardless of the challenges or circumstances. A good leader’s knowledge and wisdom empower them to take actions that benefit their team’s well-being and success.
  • Awareness of defense mechanisms — As a leader, recognizing defense mechanisms is an important component of proficient leadership. This recognition enhances self-awareness, bolsters emotional intelligence, facilitates conflict resolution, and lays the foundation for a nurturing work environment. Leaders who navigate defense mechanisms, both in themselves and their teams, are more aptly prepared to lead with empathy, authenticity, and equity.
  • Impatience and other cues — Leaders must be attuned to signs of impatience within themselves and respond thoughtfully. This could encompass honing the art of patience, engaging in active listening, delegating tasks with precision, and keeping long-term goals in sight while being ready to act urgently when circumstances require it. Striking the right balance between urgency and patience stands as a fundamental leadership skill essential for achieving the best team performance and results.
  • Acknowledging cultural differences — We all come from diverse geographical regions, religious beliefs, social statuses, and racial backgrounds, which collectively shape our identities and influence our behaviors. As a leader, it’s vital to acknowledge and appreciate these intricacies in order to lead effectively. Being inclusive and considerate of everyone’s unique backgrounds is essential for the successful management of teams.
  • Authenticity — Embracing your true self as a leader enhances your relatability and simplifies the path of your leadership journey. Authenticity in leadership is a cornerstone in building trust, kindling inspiration, fostering transparent communication, and nurturing a positive and productive workplace. Leaders who personify authenticity are better equipped to lead with unwavering integrity, guiding their organizations toward lasting success.

Leadership is a multifaceted concept beyond simply holding a position of authority. It is about trust, vulnerability, courage, self-awareness, patience, cultural awareness, and authenticity. A truly effective leader is someone who not only guides their team but also inspires them to be the best versions of themselves. They lead by example, enhancing a culture of trust, openness, and inclusivity. Effective leaders acknowledge their vulnerabilities, which allows them to connect with their teams on a deeper level. They dare to make tough decisions and have the wisdom to act in the best interest of their team. They navigate defense mechanisms, promote patience, and are aware of their team members’ unique backgrounds and identities.

Conclusively, In the world of leadership, the journey is ongoing, and there is always room for growth and improvement. As we navigate various leadership roles in our lives, let us strive to embody the above qualities, continuously learn, and evolve as leaders who inspire and make a positive impact on those we lead.

A heartfelt appreciation goes out to the Global Partnership Resilience for orchestrating such an outstanding training program, serving as a catalyst for all trainees as we eagerly anticipate our growth as better servants.

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